I've caught a bad cold these last few days. I hesitate to call it "flu" because although I'm suffering a coughing fit, a terrible sore throat and a nose bleed, I'm not too weak to stay put in bed and neither do I have a raging fever. I'm also evidently well enough for walks (to get some exercise to mitigate the eating) even if it's windy and chilly outside. &*%$, probably the reason why this cold is not only prolonging but worsening.
I have however, begged off a few of E's social activities when not feeling "too well". I think I deserve the break: I really do have to make a big effort to understand 1/3 of the conversations. During my time alone in the room (Tia C's room to be exact), I 've discovered a number of lovely blogs on cooking, fashion and design. They are wonderful. I know I would not have found them if I wasn't hiding in the borrowed room, using E's Ipad and clicking on unfamiliar links.
I was tempted to use the I'm not well card again last night (especially as I was NOT feeling well having spent most of the day in a cold house in the country, while E indulged in some winter BBQing). But I didn't and went along with PIL's good idea to watch live basket ball with his friends. We were given good tickets; we sat not too far from the court (but clearly, not near enough for me to take good pictures from my iphone).

The match was entertaining. Basket ball I realise again, is more my cup of tea than non-world cup football or rugby matches. However, I was a little disconcerted by the suit wearing managers (why the need to be so formal?) and more so by the cheer-leading performance during the breaks. The direct transfer of culture from America to Spain? Or the spectacle of teenagers disrobing, while flicking their hair suggestively and then dancing energetically watched by an audience consisting of mostly middle aged men (some of whom had booed and made dismissive comments relating to a woman referee).

We went to a tapas bar for dinner after the match (my stomach is now used to late luncheons and dinners after more than a week here) and there I tried again to follow the conversation - while also lapsing into my own thoughts, mulling whether I was turning into my dear late grandmother who was always distressed watching the accompanying dancers on solid gold and similar programmes.
Jeez... Am I really becoming a boring prude again (in my old age)? Or am I just concerned about the role and perception of women, especially in the context of women not being taken seriously. I don't know (I do know that I have no moral views or objections about women working in lap dancing bars or exchanging sex for money).