Epilogue: I must confess that I have been skipping since I made the decision to attend the festival. I intend (and am looking forward) to making more skip inducing decisions from now on. I practised secrets after 2 unsuccessful evenings of calling around - and suddenly found myself a vacant 300year old cottage. I have paid the deposit and now just need to find a car to rent during the time.
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I've had a busy week. First there were meetings, results and reports. And then there were the tickets to organise and pay f0r (two trips in May!) and accommodation hunting for that week of books. The latter was hard work - I missed my bed time on several occasions working through the list of everything that might be available and being told off by virtually everyone I spoke to for having the audacity to try and find something now when their beds/rooms were booked 5 years ago. How dare I!
I lamented to my colleagues (a dutch and an English) over morning coffee - how I had forgotten that in the olde land, you could easily be told off for not doing the right thing - plan your bank-holiday trip in advance, know where you are going to, etc etc.
I recalled the time I was a new waitress in an Italian chain. It was Valentines day and I heard the other waitresses talk about how they were looking forward to sneering and saying no to men who would be calling/dropping by in the morning to try and get a table in the evening. "no, you last minute bastard - serve you right", "no wanker, get real, get organised, get a life" and on and on and on.
I remember that sense of righteousness. Which of course, I too adopted after several years being in the service industry (Petulantly -while dropping a plate of english breakfast on a greasy table in a caf - "You want to have a chip butty? what do you think this is - a chippy shop? Do you see any tatties anywhere? )
My English colleague who has been living in Hong Kong and Singapore the last 10 years, and who as a student in Bristol worked in a grocery store, agreed with me. And observed that in his time in Malaysia and Singapore - the waitresses would just hide or disappear when faced with such impossible requests.
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Off to mandarin class.
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